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The Almost-Request: How Good Teams and Leaders Miss Each Other
Sharon Podobnik Peterson Sharon Podobnik Peterson

The Almost-Request: How Good Teams and Leaders Miss Each Other

Under every complaint is a need that hasn’t been clearly asked for. In trauma-informed leadership, one of the most costly communication patterns we see is the “Almost-Request”. When leaders voice frustration, observations, or hints instead of directly naming what they need. The result? Confusion, resentment, and teams who genuinely don’t know what success looks like.

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